I have recently met a bunch of ESFJs, they areextremely dangerous to your health and wellbeing emotional and physical, they only solely think of themselves, all their acts of "kindness" are self centered.
My grandmother was a bitch that made my mother guilty why her (ESTP) father died (before my mother was even born) of drinking like a pig because the ESFJ bitch destroyed his self esteem.
She also never did anything good for me but supported my mothers' abuse of me so that she would be in good terms with my mother.
She also was instrumental in the death of her ESTP son by destroying his esteem by pretending to help him, when in fact she was destroying him so that she could use him any time she wanted, so that he would need her.
Even on the death bed the bitch was telling her son and my mother what they wanted to hear.
My ESFJ landlor yesterday went on a tirade against squirrels by saying: "Why don't they shot them they eat my flowers?"