I have never yet met my fiance in person.
He lives in another country.
We have known each other now almost 3 years.
We are finally getting a chance to meet in just a few weeks. I am traveling there.
I'm nervous.
I know we are type compatible, but still nervous because we come from very different backgrounds.
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
I am on my 2nd flight en route to visit the Asian continent for the first time. This next stop will be in the Middle East.
As a resident of the USA, the only foreign country I had ever previously been to has been Canada.
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
In age ~5 yo I was attracted to the term "symmetry". It looked for me as important, somehow.
One of remembrances. I talk with a kid in the kindergarten. Tell him about a symmetry as a study or science, a principle which explains something more general than geometry.
It's doubtfully that I knew about Yin Yang philosophy in that age.
I never thought about links of that in the context of my current interests and views until yesterday. Jung's types and functional symmetry as a perfect psyche state [unlike functional accentuation of the types] - when all 8 functions are good and equally developed, differentiated and consciouse, when IR problems dissappear. Jung should to had the similar opinion. The psyche state the closing to which I think as a way of peoples [and mb socium] impovement by Socionics. The state when people become wiser, stronger and happier, better and more wholely consciouse themselves, may cooperate more effectively, in general. The state the way to which through love in duality should make people more compassionate to others. By this sociums as more humanistic, effective, reasonable.
In USSR schools we had diaries for everyday marks by which teachers evaluated our knowledge of subjects. Also homework tasks on the next days were written there.
Every page had 3 sections with several lines for subjects and the marks. A turn had 2 pages what showed a week.
Parrents needed to place a signature for every week pages in the diaries. So they saw the current marks.
Sometimes in the diaries teachers could to write important notes for parrents.
The very first week's pages of my school diary (of 1st year study) contained 3 teacher's notes about my inappropriate behavior on lessons.I was active kid, only to sit and listen was new requirement and so I distracted on talking. 2nd week in the diary has no behavior criticism already. But it has another note - in one of days I came too late on lessons.
Later. When I studed in the university I got not a single discipline issue due to talking on lessons. Some teachers were strict with this and alike in school demanded to leave the lesson on ~10 min. So I needed later to take someone's notebook and copy its texts related to the lesson.
The issue with coming some minutes later on lessons has stayed with me as common also.
Click Here For My Back Story (The Backyard Boxing Match; War With the Spaniards; Rise to Power Through Fighting; The Great Romantic Conquests) (R-rated)
Supplemental Background Materials:
List 25 Things About Yourself (Childhood Psycho; Junior High Wars; More Rise To Power Through Fighting; Friends With Benefits Ring; Puppetmastery) (X-Rated)
What was your favorite book as a kid (R-rated)
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A president of Italia was ~10 km from me.
Possibly, it's the closest distance at which foreign president was to me.
@ooo
Is your finger now an excellent discerner of cheeses?Originally Posted by asd
I have loads of stories about being stalked by homeless people, I'm terrified of ghosts (despite not being sold on their existence) and I won't eat at a restaurant that serves Pepsi because I'm a Diet Coke addict. There's one exception--a sushi buffet with amazing fish that serves Corona. I love drinking Corona when I'm eating sushi/squid/shrimp/fish.
I can beat just about anyone at Tetris. I've been to Estonia and ate at a remodeled McDonalds in Tallinn that claimed to have a playplace, but it was just a single tunnel with a slide. During my teen years, I was obsessed with calorie counting and used to faint quite a bit.
Oh yeah, and I write smut.That's the one that most people seem interested in.
someday the grapes will be wine
and someday you will be mine
EII-Ne 2w3 - 9w1 - 7w8 so/sx
Victim? Hummm
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Are you serious that you can't type her from the information that she has offered here?
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
@Sol
A hint in case you didn't put it all together yet.
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“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
How can someone who doesn't pay the least attention to people begin to expect to type?
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
i know there are interesting facts about me, but i can't remember any of them.
It's ok, facts are subject to change based on perception.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
You sound like a Delta.
"A man with a definite belief always appears bizarre, because he does not change with the world; he has climbed into a fixed star, and the earth whizzes below him like a zoetrope."
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"Having a clear faith, based on the creed of the Church, is often labeled today as fundamentalism... Whereas relativism, which is letting oneself be tossed and swept along
by every wind of teaching, looks like the only
attitude acceptable to today's standards." - Pope Benedict the XVI, "The Dictatorship of Relativism"
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I copy peoples quirks. Like if someone does something quirky that I like Ill copy it. For example I saw someone dipping pieces of their burger in ketchup instead of putting it on their actual burger and I now do that. Or my brother uses his middle finger to change the radio station so now I do too. Im not sure that I actually have a personality I just pull what I like from the people around me lol.
It took me longer than the other children to be able to ride a bike without stabilisers. Like I was 13 and I could finally do it. If you teach me anything kinesthetic it takes a really long time. I am currently learning to drive and it's taken almost two years and I have only just applied to do my theory test. I am nowhere near ready for my practical test. I have always had a suspicion that I may have a mild form of dyspraxia. The other day I visited my mom and I was talking about my struggles with driving and she mentioned she thinks I might have a mild form of dyspraxia. I was going to look into it...maybe go to the doctors or something. A lot of people think I am stupid, or I get called a spastic or something similar because I can't catch things e.g. if you throw me a packet of crisps from a short distance I can't catch it, and I get my left and right mixed up in a way where people look at me as if I'm "not quite right." They portray clumsy girls in books and films as endearing, but I have always felt embarrassed of my clumsiness, poor coordination and general awkwardness. So I thought maybe getting a diagnosis and putting al abel on it would give me piece of mind and perhaps a degree of protection, if that makes sense. If people make fun of me for my clumsiness and struggles to grasp anything physical or that requires coordination, I could say "actually I have dyspraxia" but then I thought...no. I shoudln't have to justify myself and at least these negative reactions make it easier for me to choose the sort of people I want to spend time with. And it doesn't really affect my life. I am fairly intelligent, I work, I am getting married, I function more than adequately...certain things just take longer to grasp. The fact I can't throw, catch, do anything that requires coordination (please never ask me to dance), trip over or walk into door frames (lol door frames are my nemesis) or understand how to physically do some things e.g. driving and even make up and doing my hair is difficult....unless I practice for a really long time.... is not a big deal really
I'm not particularly interesting and I don't think my little story was that interesting....but I think I wanted to share because I am starting to accept these things about myself and it makes me happy
I recommend to take medical consultation about are you safe to drive cards if you have such problems. Speed of reaction and coordination are very important there. Maybe you'll need advanced driving course befor dealing with real roads.
I've flown a small airplane.
I'm not very interesting , I am more like pure and classic- like ur grandfather's scotch.
but uhh i think i would have to say is I drew on paper plates a lot as a kid. This is probably really common though and not very interesting. but its like nobody in the real world talked about it much.... its like I would run out of real paper and just use a bunch of paper plates. It was fun. =D
I've been rocking european overhand with my offhand since age 13.
I found out today that I have broken the law in regards the Treason Felony Act 1848 many, many times.
Improving your happiness and changing your personality for the better
Jungian theory is not grounded in empirical data (pdf file)
The case against type dynamics (pdf file)
Cautionary comments regarding the MBTI (pdf file)
Reinterpreting the MBTI via the five-factor model (pdf file)
Do the Big Five personality traits interact to predict life outcomes? (pdf file)
The Big Five personality test outperformed the Jungian and Enneagram test in predicting life outcomes
Evidence of correlations between human partners based on systematic reviews and meta-analyses of traits
Numbers... this is sort of funny :
Totally fluent in 4 languages
Intimately linked to 4 countries (not necessarily dependent on languages I speak)
I learnt to read and count before I was 3
The first 3 words I learnt: tea - shoes - button... it was between 10 and 12 months...mom and dad came afterwards
2 master degrees
2 very long term relationships
1... there are a lot of ones
I'm curious. Did that level of precociousness carry with you through out your life? That is to say, were you always way ahead of your peers in school and whatever else, or was it more just an advantage that evened out as you got older? Considering your language fluency and the fact that you have 2 masters degrees i'd assume you were always ahead
I was secretary of my college's Sky Sports Club. I learned how to pack my own parachute. I jumped out of a plane (alone) 5 times. I had a malfunction once, and I did the right thing. (And then I never did that again...).
"A man with a definite belief always appears bizarre, because he does not change with the world; he has climbed into a fixed star, and the earth whizzes below him like a zoetrope."
........ G. ........... K. ............... C ........ H ........ E ...... S ........ T ...... E ........ R ........ T ........ O ........ N ........
"Having a clear faith, based on the creed of the Church, is often labeled today as fundamentalism... Whereas relativism, which is letting oneself be tossed and swept along
by every wind of teaching, looks like the only
attitude acceptable to today's standards." - Pope Benedict the XVI, "The Dictatorship of Relativism"
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I'm a direct descendant of Daniel Boone's first cousin, Hannah. In high school I had a best friend who I later found out was also a descendant of the Boones. A couple of my ancestors were Quakers who were shunned and kicked out for becoming soldiers and marrying outside their religion/race (but I don't know the details). I have ancestors in every war, including the revolutionary war/civil war.
I left the "quiver-full cult", the one where you throw away the condoms, think "the Duggers" but poor. My nick name was Amish in the south and I told customers that I was an Amish chick running from the Amish, did a terrible German accent too lmao, made money off that one.
Wow, these facts are pretty boring, let's see... I have out of body experiences on a regular basis (when you float above yourself and you can "fly" around the room, this happens when I sleep, it's very painful and feels like I'm being shocked and I can hear a zapping sound), in my sleep I have delusions of falling into the pits of hell and I can't escape, I can't see anything but I hear demons/aliens, nightmares and reoccurring dreams almost every night, dreams that come true and "dream messages", sleep paralysis, & insomnia.
LSI-Se 836 Sp/Sx
I organized a street fighting group in high school that probably had about a hundred fights give or take. People outside my immediate friends didn't know it was me, but the principal figured it out and actually politely asked me to stop. I did.
I've pulled a guy out of a flipped over car.
I used to have a journal full of stories based on altruistic things I saw my cat do.
In basic training, during the group showers, me and my friend Hamilton would sing it's raining men to make the other guys feel uncomfortable.
Projection is ordinary. Person A projects at person B, hoping tovalidate something about person A by the response of person B. However, person B, not wanting to be an obejct of someone elses ego and guarding against existential terror constructs a personality which protects his ego and maintain a certain sense of a robust and real self that is different and separate from person A. Sadly, this robust and real self, cut off by defenses of character from the rest of the world, is quite vulnerable and fragile given that it is imaginary and propped up through external feed back. Person B is dimly aware of this and defends against it all the more, even desperately projecting his anxieties back onto person A, with the hope of shoring up his ego with salubrious validation. All of this happens without A or B acknowledging it, of course. Because to face up to it consciously is shocking, in that this is all anybody is doing or can do and it seems absurd when you realize how pathetic it is.
I smuggled a substantial amount of cocaine given to me by a retired French gun runner over the Bolivian-Argentine border when I was 20.
In the beginning of 19th century in place where I'm living 1 kg of beluga caviar costed about $5. If to extrapolate based on prices of bread in that time and today. It was common food in Russia in that times.
Me and @mu4 get steak and lobster every Wednesday night.
Then he makes a post after I clickbait him and then deletes it a couple minutes later.
The 1st time I've gotten to press I was 1 year old, - it was a newspaper. As press of that times is kept in libraries, so my photo exists in Russian State Library, at least.
Lots of facts about me, but I'm afraid none of them interesting.
“I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking
I was smacked by a mountain gorilla in Rwanda.
And if God cares so wonderfully for flowers that are here today and gone tomorrow, won't he more surely care for you?- Matthew 6:30
Oh shoot
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
A magpie almost murdered me on two separate occasions.
My grandfather's first cousin's husband was Lord-Mayor of London.
"A man with a definite belief always appears bizarre, because he does not change with the world; he has climbed into a fixed star, and the earth whizzes below him like a zoetrope."
........ G. ........... K. ............... C ........ H ........ E ...... S ........ T ...... E ........ R ........ T ........ O ........ N ........
"Having a clear faith, based on the creed of the Church, is often labeled today as fundamentalism... Whereas relativism, which is letting oneself be tossed and swept along
by every wind of teaching, looks like the only
attitude acceptable to today's standards." - Pope Benedict the XVI, "The Dictatorship of Relativism"
.
.
.
I have a scar on my leg from falling onto a chainsaw when I was little.
I have memories of my mom telling me to read the newspaper to her friends before I entered kindergarten like a parlor trick.
As a teenager I ran away from home so often that one time when I came back my family had moved while I was gone and I had to call around to find them. During one of these adventures I stayed with a boyfriend in a tent in the woods when it was 40 below zero.
I have dermatophagia. yum.
At least it didn't fall on you!
I have never broken a bone in my life.
I have always had a good memory for numbers and facts - I memorized over 30 digits of pi and a lot of poetry when I was in high school - but I frequently forget mundane things.
I once ran a popular MBTI/Enneagram blog with 3k followers on Tumblr. After people spammed my inbox with 700+ asks, I got so stressed with answering all of them properly and university that I decided to quit. Notable details about this blog: My best (stupid) meme got 7k notes, I signed my posts with "Admin X" although I was the only person running the site, and: the blog started out as an astrology site where I offered natal chart readings.
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