I'd say I'm best buds with an LII cousin of mine. He's great, really smart, has a good family, knows his shit up and down, we get into the most interesting of discussions. His is comparable to none, which I actually enjoy. Sparing with him in that department is very enjoyable. Yeah, he's got me beat there, but the whole exercise is still quite nice. He's the friendliest "enemy" I can think of, and I like him for it. If only more "alpha" types were like him the world would be a better place .

His wife is, well, more adversarial but I don't have to deal with her on a closer basis. Thus I get along with her too! She don't need to know my opinion, and I don't need to know hers. Thus, harmony!