oh, sorry. words that communicate the opposite of "mellow", such as 1."energetic", 2."emotional", 3."pushy", 4."loud", etc. are some words that come to mind for ESE.
1. Can be, but I have a tendency to deflate.
2. Ok, every F type ever, is a given.
3. Pushy? If I want something, I issue a command or something, but I tend to follow the "live and let live maxim". This sounds more Se anyhow.
4. Ok, I am.