Quote Originally Posted by Resonare View Post
I'm reading more about this "dual-seeking" Se and I don't think it's me at all. Apparently, INTps like to feel the force of other people upon themselves...yeah...no. As I said before, I'm very much the type to lash out at anyone who even attempts to do that. Just this week a girl tried to push in front of me in a queue and I told her to basically get the **** back because I was first.
Lol, Se DS is not about letting people push in front of you in a queue. That's utter bullshit. Read up on SEE type profiles and see what's actually meant by the "force" of Se+Fi. It has nothing to do with unfair pushing around or other coercive behaviour.


I won't initially impose my will on others, and I may come across as reserved, but if someone gets out of line I will not hesitate at all, regardless of who they are. For example, I have already decided to not marry or enter a serious relationship and I know for a fact that if anyone tried to force me to they would regret it as I would verbally attack them (possibly physically) then break all contact with them whether they be my family or not.
That's completely normal to not let others make you check out a relationship with whoever you don't want to be with. Also again you sound quite gamma and Fi HA also works for this sort of stubbornly sticking to a decision that's somewhat black and white in nature as you don't take into account too many variables for it.


Maybe this seems like a rant but I cannot emphasis enough just how much it isn't like me. I'm reluctant to impose myself on others I do not think warrant it (it's in my 80Q), but I won't hesitate when it comes to those that do unless there's a serious consequence of doing so.
It's alright you talked about it, as it shows better where you misunderstood the theory. Btw, habitually looking at consequences first before action is Ni > Se.