Lol, Se DS is not about letting people push in front of you in a queue. That's utter bullshit. Read up on SEE type profiles and see what's actually meant by the "force" of Se+Fi. It has nothing to do with unfair pushing around or other coercive behaviour.
That's completely normal to not let others make you check out a relationship with whoever you don't want to be with. Also again you sound quite gamma and Fi HA also works for this sort of stubbornly sticking to a decision that's somewhat black and white in nature as you don't take into account too many variables for it.I won't initially impose my will on others, and I may come across as reserved, but if someone gets out of line I will not hesitate at all, regardless of who they are. For example, I have already decided to not marry or enter a serious relationship and I know for a fact that if anyone tried to force me to they would regret it as I would verbally attack them (possibly physically) then break all contact with them whether they be my family or not.
It's alright you talked about it, as it shows better where you misunderstood the theory. Btw, habitually looking at consequences first before action is Ni > Se.Maybe this seems like a rant but I cannot emphasis enough just how much it isn't like me. I'm reluctant to impose myself on others I do not think warrant it (it's in my 80Q), but I won't hesitate when it comes to those that do unless there's a serious consequence of doing so.



