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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    One reason why I don't type you EII is because your family's wishes are a certain way, even when they are annoying, like expecting you to do something the last minute, and you not doing them. I personally, being EII, have a hard time saying no to these requests. I just drop what I'm doing and go do it. I feel like most often I don't have a choice no matter how annoying the "spontaneous" and "impulsive" some of these sudden plans are. For the people in my family who plan these things, they are not sudden. They have been talking about it likely for a while and just bothered to mention them to me at the last minute.
    That is the part which annoys me the most. If it's something completely in the moment and they ask me then I may do it, but if they planned it and left me out until the last moment and expect me to simply just drop whatever it is that I'm doing for them then I'll refuse to do so. My parents would often force me to go out with my family and I used to just disengage from them and not hide the fact that I didn't want to be there.

    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
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    What is a rule? What rules do you have to follow?
    A rule is a boundary and somewhat of an action (or lack of) imposed on something.

    We don't have to follow rules but they often do create order and peace.
    By that I mean a rule forces someone to take action (or lack of action) in a given situation. For example, someone could have a rule of no sex before marriage which may prompt said person to reject the advances of another person. In this case, the action was rejecting the advances of a person based on the rule of no sex before marriage.
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