Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
Not strange. The one about your ideal relationship where you'd be the dominant one. Yeah and my comment on that one: dominant in what way?

So?
Dominant as in I am a major factor when making decisions. My family like to make plans without even notifing me until the last moment and then expect me to just show up and be happy about it. This pisses me off to no end and I often refuse to participate. I'd much rather disengage from a group of people, family or not, that expect me to follow like that. I am difficult to persuade through force but easily persuaded through submission. Even if the opposing point of view is logically sound, I tend to not acknowledge it if there is a sense of superiority behind it, but I almost never ignore an idea, perspective or request for help that comes from a point of subordination unless that person was previously ignoring my advice and has now come back begging for help, in which case I will want the consquences of their decision to take full effect on them.

Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
You are not being consistent - previously you said "I may not approach romantic interests but it's never been made clear to me by them that they are interested."

How many actual relationships have you had so far?
What I mean is that I am not afriad to admit romantic interest in someone but it is rarely ever reciprocated, therefore I do not approach. To me, reciprocating interest would be confirmation from the girl or a source she would trust e.g. a friend, sister etc. Some random people in the same class as me (that aren't close to her) telling me she likes me is not reliable and wouldn't trigger me to approach.