Quote Originally Posted by Resonare View Post
@Myst We can now rule out ILI since I think I'm an aggressor not a victim.

- I absolutely loathe the idea of being physically vulnerable around anyone to the point where I can't stand wearing less layers of clothing around people.
- I don't deny romantic interest in someone when my friends ask me about it.
- I may not approach romantic interests but it's never been made clear to me by them that they are interested.
- People tend to mistake me for being a weak person but are surprised when I quickly confront them.
- I don't disgust weakness in others like victims are said to. Instead, I actually tend to open up and show kindness to those who submit to me and I am moved by great acts of loyalty.
- In my ideal relationship I am very much the dominant one.
- I prefer to be chased to a certain point before becoming the chaser myself.

I know ILIs/LIEs are also referred to as "psuedo-aggressors" but even that doesn't seem to cover it as they still have a lot of victim qualities that I don't relate to.

Any insights into this matter are more than welcome.
Which victim qualities of gamma NTs do you not relate to?

As for the list you made:

1) not related to aggressor
2) not related
3) victims focus on the interest of the other person
4) fits gamma NT alright
5) what sort of submission is that? be more specific on this
6) relevant how?