Mayuri (SEI) and Okabe (ILE) from Steins;Gate.
Last edited by Der; 11-21-2016 at 04:13 PM.
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ESE - LII
So, there is this ESE at a place where I sometimes eat lunch. I identify her as an ESE because she's got an Alpha vibe, is quite reserved but super (mothering-hovering-caregiving), has this weird confidence that seems to come from being grounded, moves slowly but I don't think she's lazy because she's always doing something, and I can relate to her about as well as I relate to some varieties of starfish, but there seems to be no conflictor vibe. She's also very pretty in a abstract Alpha way and I'm trying to get one of the inert LII's that I work with to get off his ass and get dualized so he can better approximate a human being. He lost his last ESE GF and is putting on weight, which is not good for business.
So, to reduce his quantum uncertainty and get her better located in his mind while also getting an object at rest into motion, I said to her:
"I'm conducting a survey to find out what traits people are looking for in a mate or husband. What would you say are the most important things for you?"
She replies, slowly, after thinking, “Sense of humor. Kind heart.”
“What about being popular? Should he be the life of the party? Or more quiet and reserved, and never talks?”
“More in the middle, I guess. Yes, more in the middle.”
“How about smart?”
Big grin. Eyes staring into the middle ground and don't seem to see me. “Oh, yes! Definitely very smart.”
I mean, I think she is objectively pretty, but she is so far from my style that her attractiveness is entirely abstract to me. I know that she would be judged "very pretty" by magazine cover standards, but I wouldn't buy that magazine.
To me, Alpha women, SEI and ESE, can be very pretty, but in an "eternally youthful" way, almost as if they haven't hit puberty yet. In fact, all Alphas seem that way to me. I looked at this woman and said to myself, "Something's missing. Where is the experience, where is the judgement, where are the lines in her face?" I never get that impression from IEE's, who seem mature to me no matter what age they are or how goofy they act.
My point in the above post was only to show that she was describing an LII without knowing anything about Socionics.
My LII sister looks at least ten, maybe fifteen years younger than she is. She is married to an LSE, and people assume she is his daughter. She works out, though, and has defined muscles in her arms.
Lean kind of runs in my family. Here is a pic of my SLI father: http://i.imgur.com/DeTyIkb.jpg
I, too, prefer lean women. I'm not sure I would ever tell a woman she should lose weight, but I have never dated a woman who was overweight, and I've dated all the introverts except SEI's.
I also would say that I prefer that a woman not wear makeup, but maybe I just mean that I prefer if I can't tell if a woman is wearing makeup. When I was dating an LSI, I was surprised to find her shopping for makeup. I didn't know she wore it, despite sleeping with her.
Last edited by Adam Strange; 01-25-2017 at 05:31 PM.
alpha duality in a nutshell, specifically ile-sei.
ESE and LII
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
All bow down to my amazing MS Paint skills.
LII a willing pawn as an ESE entices him to come after her.
Last edited by Skepsis; 08-09-2017 at 12:46 PM.
Their actual types may be different but this interaction appears to be ILE-SEI.