It's not that they don't care. (I'll bet they eventually care a lot.) Probably it is rather that they
1. don't see the difference before it is too late, or
2. don't know what they could have, because they don't know what's out there. So, get out there. And be more accepting, once you see the guy. They might only be able to get up the courage to try once, and if they don't find acceptance right away, they will move on to someone who will accept them.
I told an SLE guy at work that I had met an IEI (a waitress) who looked like both a good social and psychological match for him, and he should talk to her. So, that weekend, he approached her and she told him to get lost. The next week, I asked him how it went, and he said she has other plans (she told me she was single, had a small kid, and was looking), but there is a hot girl at the gym he likes, and he shows me her picture (and guess which type a girl at the gym is likely to be?).
SLE's may eventually find you more interesting, but they need to immediately find you more accepting.
You need to save the "hitting them with a rolled up newspaper" until they've tried to crawl into your lap for the fifth time that day.



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