Quote Originally Posted by silke View Post
Learn to recognize them and take initiative in becoming acquainted with the ones that you really like. That's about all advice I can give.

Duality works as a kind of back-and-forth mediatory process, ime, so dive into their habits and interests, else they will barely recognize you and try to make lt girlfriend of some ESI.
Interesting you mention ESI because most of my boy dramas, as a teen, were usually centered around ESI females wanting to kill me over some boy. Most of the boys were betas but also a couple gamma. I should have stayed home and played with my Barbies longer.