
Originally Posted by
Starfall
Doesn't everyone obsess over their lover when they're in a relationship? I don't think this is exclusive to sx first, I think it's just human nature. I'm sp first, and when I'm in a relationship it often becomes my whole world and the only thing I can ever think about (and I fucking hate it).
The only difference is that I'm extremely picky and would rather be single for long periods of time than just attach myself to some random person. I can only be with someone if I really deeply feel it, and that connection doesn't come with just anyone... it's extremely special to me. When I do fall in love, I lock on and can only see them, and it's very difficult for me to break away from this person, even if they've turned out to be toxic. I will spend years in a shitty relationship because of this, whereas most people would have broken it off and quickly moved on. I think this is a quality of sp/sx in particular.
I think sx firsts more or less constantly have to be in a relationship or a fling, or at least looking for love. They also seem to be able to fall in love and connect to others very easily. They can't be single for long, otherwise they'll go crazy.