Quote Originally Posted by octo View Post
With the boyfriend - show affection in small and silly ways. Sometimes I'm not even feeling intentionally lovey - it's almost an automatic reflex. Hugs, "I love you", "You're so amazing", "You're so precious to me", "How are you so amazing?", "You're the coolest person ever, can I eat you and gain your powers plz", "I miss you", rubbing my nose on whatever bit of their body is closest at the time etc. I think Fi-PoLR mostly means that they have a poor grasp of how people feel towards them without external signs, so the constant affection reassures them.
I ALWAYS need this -- this is a big part of why I was thinking SLE for a bit for myself