Just wanted to make a point about something before I forgot.. I may have said this before in a post but can't remember

I have this weird thing about needing validation constantly from loved ones.. particularly boyfriends.. I'm all about getting that over the top emotional expression from someone. I was reading the SLEs feeling insecure due to weak thread and I related a lot to it. I question the state of relationships or bonds if I'm not shown overt displays of affection. I also tend to ask people constantly about what kind of person I am, if I am a good person or not.. because I really doubt myself often. I also have a problem with burning bridges and being extremely reactive to any displays of negativity or aggression and fighting back against it. I am the farthest thing from "tactful" I guess you could say, but I am working to improve this.

I also have stated this in previous threads about me being SEE, and how in relationships, I really like feeling "ownership" over the person.. I always makes jokes about training the guy like a puppy.. lol. In romantic situations, I definitely relate most to being the Aggressor, the initiator.

IRL I am quite an attention whore tbh.. I love having others compete for my time, I like feeling needed, popular, etc.. I care a lot about my social standing and part in the community and like to involve myself in positions of power.