Just wanted to make a point about something before I forgot.. I may have said this before in a post but can't remember
I have this weird thing about needingvalidation constantly from loved ones.. particularly boyfriends.. I'm all about getting that over the top emotional expression from someone. I was reading the SLEs feeling insecure due to weak
thread and I related a lot to it. I question the state of relationships or bonds if I'm not shown overt displays of affection. I also tend to ask people constantly about what kind of person I am, if I am a good person or not.. because I really doubt myself often. I also have a problem with burning bridges and being extremely reactive to any displays of negativity or aggression and fighting back against it. I am the farthest thing from "tactful" I guess you could say, but I am working to improve this.
I also have stated this in previous threads about me being SEE, and how in relationships, I really like feeling "ownership" over the person.. I always makes jokes about training the guy like a puppy.. lol. In romantic situations, I definitely relate most to being the Aggressor, the initiator.
IRL I am quite an attention whore tbh.. I love having others compete for my time, I like feeling needed, popular, etc.. I care a lot about my social standing and part in the community and like to involve myself in positions of power.



validation constantly from loved ones.. particularly boyfriends.. I'm all about getting that over the top emotional expression from someone. I was reading the SLEs feeling insecure due to weak
thread and I related a lot to it. I question the state of relationships or bonds if I'm not shown overt displays of affection. I also tend to ask people constantly about what kind of person I am, if I am a good person or not.. because I really doubt myself often. I also have a problem with burning bridges and being extremely reactive to any displays of negativity or aggression and fighting back against it. I am the farthest thing from "tactful" I guess you could say, but I am working to improve this.
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