@the asking about being defriended thing, i've got people in my friends list who i wouldn't be bothered being defriended by, and some who i'd just roll my eyes at. then the people who i give a shit about and I guess with them I'm hurt and wondering but also feel like their defriending me could mean that they needed space and that whatever the reason is for it they couldn't bring themselves to address it with me yet (were too upset or angry). if it's someone i really see as a friend i figure that they'll come back once they've worked it out (or a way to talk about it where it won't possibly be a friendship ending fight where things not really meant were said). I'm totally seeing other people as how i would deal with things, i'll admit that. also, MUST AVOID CONFLICT!!!PP but if i do like you enough to where it hurts i'll probably indirectly (or is it passive aggresively?
) try to communicate my confusion and misery in some way to try to get you to come talk to me. idk it's maybe not the most adult way to deal with it i'll admit but it's what i've got, just being honest.


PP but if i do like you enough to where it hurts i'll probably indirectly (or is it passive aggresively?
Reply With Quote