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    Default What's my type? Still not certain

    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    You might not be an IEI. I'm not very good at typing people, to be perfectly frank. That's why I prefaced my remarks with the statement that they are simply my opinion.

    With respect to your identifying most with being the "Aggressor", I'm definitely an LIE, and I think you'd be hard-pressed to find anyone who knows me, or who has been intimately involved with me, who would say that I'm not aggressive. I was in total disagreement with my being called a "victim" in the Erotic Attitudes article. Nevertheless, the description has enough elements of truth, and predicts a good deal of my behavior (at least some of the time), so that I now agree with the description, while still disliking the label.
    So-called "Victims" are, I think, looking for people who will be loyal to them, and you stated that loyalty was very important to you. I don't think most Aggressors care that much about loyalty (especially their own), because there's always another Victim available, and it's actually all about them finding someone who will love them, rather than them finding that one person whom they will love. But again, that's just my opinion.
    Interesting. I was hard pressed thinking of 'values' so I just threw in what I considered general morals that anyone would consider (or so I thought lol). There wasn't much thought into that answer. I do value loyalty and devotion though. In relationships Im insecure about relational distances and I need to be reassured, though Id never admit that to outsiders. I'm unsure of how people feel about me unless actually stated. Yet professions of affection make me feel uncomfortable too because I don't really believe it. I relate to being an aggressor because when I have Romantic feelings toward someone, I think it most practical to tell them so as to know whether the feeling is reciprocated (edit: upon further thought, I don't care if it's reciprocated. I just want them to Know). There has never been a time I haven't been the pursuer. I like the chase. Being pursued doesn't interest me, it's actually a turn off.

    I might not be an aggressor but nothing about victim rings true.
    Last edited by Shuriken; 08-13-2015 at 01:37 AM.

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