Quote Originally Posted by Muddytextures View Post
Well the thing is, there are aspects about Fe and Se that I both like and dislike. I like the warmth and thoughtfulness of Fe doms, but dislike their restlessness and when they expect me conform to their Fe atmosphere. I like the thrill/action seeking of Se doms, but dislike it when they try to domineer or control.
A friend of mine is SEE and with a IEI together he is pretty pushy and forceful but mostly in a charming way. She often doesn't want to do what he wants and opposes him. There are often small "fights" but they are both not worn out by it and even enjoy them. This is typical for victim/agressor relationships (attraction / repulsion). A Se-PoLR would be worn out by such a person if he had to deal with such a behaviour on a constant basis.