Yeah I didn't think I was ever SLI, delta values just don't do it for me. Still good to keep an open mind though.

I would agree that seeing how I interact with ESEs vs SEEs would help, but the problem is that I don't know any. I suspect my mother whom I see regularly might be ESE. I thought before she was SEI because she seemed a little more introverted then a typical ESE but at the same time she clearly seems like a rational type. (Restless rather then lazy, likes being organized, perfectionist, denounces thuggish people). Fe and Si and very easy to see in her. She is probably ESE with a very strong focus on Si. Anyway I wouldn't really say it seems like conflict or duality when I interact with. She helps a lot with daily problems which I greatly appreciate, but I'm also constantly slightly annoyed by her restlessness and focus on mundane details. So yeah, thats pretty much all I can say about ESEs.

As for SEEs, I don't know any, period.

Actually this got me thinking. Since I grew up with an ESE parent, you think its possible I somehow "adjusted" myself by accepting alpha values? Perhaps I subconsciously adapted to a conflictor by acting more like their dual? This might explain the ILI/LII split.

Edit: My mother looks EXACTLY like this pic of an ESE lol.

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