Sexual moves to Social

Then when the passion for deeper connection is ignited the sexual subtype will want to bond totally with their desired other. When the mate is determined, the sexual subtype will return to one on one style of relating. Ideally, this is intense time spent with the desired other or mate. An area of pain and disappointment for this subtype is when they have a mate that is unwilling to pay attention to their degree of connection and intimately share their deepest and innermost thoughts.



One of the problems of sx/sp/sx relationships I have run into, in the past, is that when they start focusing more on sp stuff, that at first, it feels like they are being cold. Without communication I take that as a sign they are losing interest even when they are not. I have had to make a lot of adjustments in these relationships because they usually didn't. Overall being in relationships with sp/sx is pretty stable once everyone's need are made clear. Another problem was that I used to not be sure what my needs really were so I could not tell them. I think without communication things breakdown quickly.