I think it's interesting the differences after a mate is found.

Like, I can see how someone wanting their mate to pay attention to their activities, causes, etc, or want the mate to share deep and intimate thoughts, would be upset if their mate just returns to daily routines.

And I can see how a person who needs inner calm and a sense of security while in a relationship would be agitated by their partner pushing them to join in family/friend gatherings, try new foods, and/or participate in their partner's causes or interests.

Even R & I's "dating" was pretty much as homebody's. It was basically just hanging out together at my house. I wonder if that's why the relationship moved so quickly into pretty much living together from the get-go. It was like open the door for the first date to start and then BOOM, he belonged in my home.

SP: "Once the mate is secured, the self-preserving subtype will return to basic routines that ideally would include the mate. An area of pain and disappointment for this subtype is when they have a mate that is unwilling to pay attention to issues of security and disrupt their need for inner calm."

SO: "Once the mate is in place, the social subtype will return to outside interests, groups and/or activities, ideally, this is with their mate. An area of pain and disappointment for this subtype is when they have a mate that is unwilling to pay attention to their need for people, activities, causes and unwilling to share their interest in others."

SX: "When the mate is determined, the sexual subtype will return to one on one style of relating. Ideally, this is intense time spent with the desired other or mate. An area of pain and disappointment for this subtype is when they have a mate that is unwilling to pay attention to their degree of connection and intimately share their deepest and innermost thoughts."
Does this mean I've gotta switch my sig line back to sp/sx?