Quote Originally Posted by SisOfNight View Post
Where's the source for that? Almost any Socionics site I've read mentioned Supervision to be "repulsive".
Supervision Relations - [Read more...]
Basic relationship elements:


  • Egotistic orientations = hetroverted
  • Social rhythms = arrhythmic
  • Spiritual vibes = repulsive
  • Social rankings = asymmetrical

Brief summary


  • It can feel like the supervisor takes on a 'baby-sitters role' towards the supervisee.
  • It can get neurotic for the supervisee who drew 'the short end of the stick' in getting their 'little brother' social position.
  • It can get confusing for the supervisor in their 'big brother' social position when the supervisee doesn't respond well to their dominant attitudes.
I love my ESE sister as much as you could possibly love another human being and spiritually she is like an angel to me. I am not repulsed by her but I am sure when she was younger and I was taking care of her she was angry at me and blamed me for everything after taking her away from her bf and moving her a 1000 miles away. That was like the worst time between us but we got through it. My biggest problem is that I tend to talk down to her and possibly treat her like a child, I hate doing it. It is almost my default way with her whenever we are working on something together. I just assumed it was because of a bigger age difference with her than my EII sister. Even something simple like cleaning the house I will be on her and telling her what and how to do things. It is the opposite with the EII we try not to step on each other's toes as much. :/ I am better at just letting her be herself now and biting my tongue.

From my interactions with AS I say LIE suits him better than SLE. I can understand what he sees in his IEIs and he is right it probably would not be good for the long term unless there was more chemistry and love and less socionics involved.

I am not sure how they are defining the term spiritual vibes as repulsive. That is kind of strange. What if the person is like your soulmate or something... Also the term definitive in the link hit my polr, I think. I am never going to get to a point where I believe that socionics trumps my free will and ability to discern for myself. There is nothing definitive in how I feel about a "type". I have to know the individual's personality and character not their type or quadra. That stuff may or may not align with theory. I don't have enough proof of intertype irl to decide really. I only know two ESE, that I am sure of, irl. One is my angel sister and the other was a shady drug house owner who I really liked but I had to keep an eye on her or she would steal my stuff.