
Originally Posted by
Adam Strange
I am definitely LIE. As I've said before, my mother never loved me, but my IEI aunt did. So, I locked onto her type. I am a wolf raised by skylarks. Most wolves think skylarks make good snacks, and that's their best use, but I think otherwise.
That doesn't mean that I always get along well with IEI's, or they with me. There are some rough spots. Yes, there is some frustration over some "petty behavior" of theirs sometimes. For example, the one I've been seeing told me to take a hike today, because I am "just like the ISFj" who just quit her employ. According to her, the ISFj and I are just alike. And because IEI's do not like to be the ones who are left in a relationship, they want to be the ones doing the leaving, she is probably doing a preemptive strike. Or testing me, I don't know. She's obviously running on Fe, not Te. They can be so sensitive to being called on their whimsey and illogic, and it is hard for me to suppress my Te and Fi, but overall, my emotional brain thinks they are a save haven. The rational brain knows that we are not a long-term comfortable match, but emotions usually rule, you know.