Enneagram Type 1

[Sol]

Significant part of E1 conflicts should be with other people having E1.
This happens due to active/aggressive social attitude when opinions about what is better do not match.

[Aria]

I see you up again wandering so diligent
Crossing your T's as though it weren't irrelevant

[eiemo]

Fictional example: Amy Elliott Dunne - Gone Girl

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kLnxf-giIsw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aF66VW8KrTc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KCLpO26zGsY***

‚the perfectionist‘

- list writing, research, everything is in place (2:58) etc.
- but at the core it’s not about the superficial perfectionism, being orderly, neat etc.
- the obsessive bent here is important, compulsive - she can't help being like that
- that means that it's a constant quality about her, sth, ingrained in her, how she really is
- her true colours that emerged during the marriage, not the various images she can project
- how she works out her plan is also infused with that quality, her signature, her design so to speak

- ...the clock is ticking, meticulously stage your crime scene...
- ...to fake a convincing murder you have to have discipline...
- ...if I get everything right, the world will hate Nick...
- ...and because you are you, you don’t stop there...

- gut triad: anger/emotions are controlled – held back in the body, more rigid body posture -> energy/anger is felt in the body
- anger and resentment local idiot, pregnant idiot, my lying cheating, oblivious husband, as if it's so hard to spread your legs, etc
- critical, demanding ...but I made him smarter, sharper... I inspired him to rise to my level.

1w2 sx first (sx/so). Maybe 3 fix.

sx - first: focus on intimate issues, embodying/changing into whatever quality/energy is sexual attractive (...when I met Nick I knew he wanted cool girl...), also "Sexual Ones focus their perfectionism on their intimate relationships, holding an ideal image of what a relationship should be like and measuring their intimates against this standard" (what's the point of being together if you are not the happiest, .. he became someone I did not agree to marry). wing 2, because there is some sort of pleasing others, awareness of others needs (manipulation them basing on this awareness) quality in her, also they are "Far more likely to be a jealous*** intimate subtype than Ones with a 9 wing." 3 fix, because there is some sort of image pragmatism with her (you need to package yourself, so that people truly mourn your loss, and America loves pregnant women) she knows what works. sx first -> wing 2 -> 3 fix -> moves her more into the seducer (sx 2) area, more awareness/picking up/occupying your mind with masculinity/feminity role ideas (sx 3, cool girl).

David Fincher:

Amy Dunne is clearly a 3w2. Her perfectionism is rooted in her desire to accomplish, not a desire to be right.

[oneshott]

Social 1 so/sx (?)

[oneshott]

I have one rule...

[Adam Strange]

One rule to ring them all....

One rule to find them.

One rule to bring them all

and, in the Darkness, bind them.

[oneshott]

This is Adam Bland's world and we're just living in it.

[Milo]

such a type 1 lecture