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    Queen of the Damned Aylen's Avatar
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    I met my "twin" years ago on a starseeds forum lol and it was like nothing I have experienced before or since. It was by far the hardest relationship I ever had, in terms of understanding each other. We spent 6 years going back and forth, even while in relationships with others. It finally ended by mutual agreement but we still care about each other. From a distance...He is married now. It was like no matter what I said or did he took issue with it and wanted to correct my perception and in turn I wanted to correct his. I don't think it is anything like duality is supposed to be. More like conflictor.I don't think he is LSE though. Could have been. He has Delta values. hahah I have heard this from others who met their "twin" as well. It is like you can't stay away from each other (supernatural obsession level) but you end up going through a string of fortunate, misfortunate events until you learned all you can from each. Then you part ways and find someone you can actually be happy with.

    As far as "soulmates", mine are scattered throughout the quadras. Same for those in "soul family". I am relating to this within the guidelines of those spiritual concepts and it is not something I dwell on or even really think about any more. The socionics intertype relations are based more on psychological compatibility than the spiritual concepts imo.

    If you read some of the twin flame forums you will see that many describe their twins as the anti-dual and they still find it hard to separate themselves from each other.

    This reminds me of something posted in the other thread.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dionysius View Post
    Oh shit I'm fucked. Aushra told me, but I didn't listen! "Be careful, study Socionics, otherwise you'll marry your conflictor!"


    "Marry your dual and be happy. Marry your conflictor, and be a philosopher."

    He was working on a doctorate in physics and I was a lowly person with computer tech certification, that he needed to help and show me the errors of my ways. I felt like he never wanted me to be as intelligent as he was. It was a big point of contention.


    Well this stirred up some memories.
    Last edited by Aylen; 02-20-2015 at 04:58 PM.

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