Quote Originally Posted by Neokortex View Post
So the hunger continues...
Hunger, need, drive, yearning, obsession, compulsion, consumed, empty, pull, lust, addiction. . . all sx descriptive terms imo. And yes like you said, a lot of socials do type as sx "I post provocative pictures on social media to get lots of likes, I must be sx" "I want everyone to like me and find me attractive, I must be sx" "I'm horny, I must be sx" etc etc. when it's social instinct driving them in the first two cases, and while the third is literally about sex, sex itself is also a physical sp need and a social bonding need, and not really the same thing as having a life focus towards sx instinct. Sx in an sx/sp is like an addict finding their drug of choice, really dialed-in, involved, consumed, nothing else in the world even exists kind of thing.

I agree with InnerLust that being casual about an instinct points to it being your secondary. You don't have any weird hangups or problems with the second one, it's the one place where you're normal and balanced about stuff. You can engage in it or not, and either way it's a choice and not a big deal.

And @lemontrees, yeah I think that quote is probably accurate. It makes sense anyway.