Quote Originally Posted by darya View Post
I feel you, I'm 379, so I have a very "everything is possible" attitude. 7's have always been my kryptonite, but now I for the first time in my life feel like it's nice that I don't have to juggle around to keep my boyfriends attention. The problems with 7's is that they are SOOOOO in love with you at first, but soon they are SOOOO in love with someone else. And they want everybody to know it. Kinda feels shallow, how they can move on so quickly.
I can see how it would, but I think the intensity while 7s are attached is the same as, say, for 4s or 6s, but the coping skills after a break-up are different (pain-avoidance coupled with constant search for new experiences). Since 7s hate dwelling on past negatives, they will necessarily move on quickly. But that doesn't mean that they weren't totally into you before.

As for the "want everyone to know" is really just related to being excitable, which I would consider another 7 trait...OMG OMG ALL THIS EXCITING NEW STUFF MUST TELL THE WOOOOORLLLLLDDDDD.

ILIs are attractive to IEEs for the same reason as SLIs are - they are aloof and pose a challenge.