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I'm currently in an Activity Relationship, although I don't have any duality experience for purposes of comparison. I can definitely see how some Activation relations would be easier to start than duality--for instance SLE/EIE and ESE/ILE are very openly social. This puts them in a position more often to experience the benefit from the positive interplay of complementary informational elements.
LSI in particular can be very guarded personally, and I've noticed many of them to highly favour the quality of relationships over quantity. This makes them slow to warm and open up...thus limiting their odds of exposure. However once they do let their guard down & let you into their inner circle, they are extremely solidly reliable and loyal! I imagine the same would be true for the ESI vs SEE. The social circle of the SEE is usually overwhelmingly gigantic. I am not sure if this would be initially intimidating to the ILI, but the LIE just views it as inefficient and encourages the SEE to streamline and then spend more time on useful interactions as opposed to being so available on everyone else's agenda and determination. This recommendation and assistance surprisingly turns out to be a relief to the overly-extended people-pleasing SEE. Being with another extrovert also takes pressure off the LIE--releasing him/her from having to (often unsuccessfully) use so much F.😉 It allows LIE to become more introverted...which I believe is a healthier state, given the overly aware and extended scope of things the LIE feels responsible for.
Similarly, I think that any social over-involvement of a SLE would roll right off the back of a EIE--as they would be distracted and busy with their own social agenda, or else want to also be part of the SLE's. The more limited, low-key and slower-paced social world of the LSI might be a better fit for the IEI. The same could be said for SEI/LII--both would want to "leave the party" early😉. The SEE/LIE would stay all night...although ironically I've found the SEE/LIE pairing to have resulted in more introversion on both our parts. Toned-down versions of SEE and LIE are actually improvements (imo)! It may be that with LSI/IEI, both may realise and appreciate that the necessary & solid level of respect/trust to let their guard down and open more fully is present.
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