No, my so/sp friend isn't like that. For instance, he wants to move to a new city to pursue a career opportunity. He was saying how he wants his SO to move with him but was saying if his SO can't come then, oh well, he guesses they'll break up. The thing is, this move is not even necessary - he can do everything he wants to do there in the same place he is now. Plus, the city he's moving to is only an hour away! And on top of it all, this is his live-in SO that he has had for the last 3 years and considers the love of his life.
So, I guess what I'm saying is that even though his relationship is an important thing in his life, if it in any way gets in the way of his career, or social life or personal interests he'll choose those other things over his relationship any time. I can't see him ever sacrificing anything about himself for a romantic relationship.



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