Here is the breif story about my ISTp friend. We met when we were in primary school in about year 3. Some how we got in a fight and had to make up in the principles office. Im sure the fight would have started by him as he was an agressive punk(he still is). Anyway so over the years a group has formed of around 8 guys. The ISTp slowly became the scape goat. People used to pay him out as he did do some total dickhead stuff. At school he wasn't really liked. He stayed friends with me through all of this but even i cracked a few times at him and told him to f&#k off etc. If im honest to myself i think we all used him as a scape goat to bring everyone else together. I used to also propagate how much of an asshole he was. Back then i was also immature
Anyway over the years he got quite addicted to Dope and still is to this day. He probablly smokes a few cones every single day. He has moved back to my city and hangs with us every now and then but he really has fallen inside himself. Like last night we went out and i tried quite hard to get him to open up etc but he truly is rude. He will just ignore what you say to him, barely acknowlegeging your presence. He is just a drain to hang around. At the friends house, we were watching the football and he just changed the channel to this comedy thing. Luckily the comedy thing he changed it to was really funny but what he did was really rude.
I try to never let life get on top of me. He seems to have done exactly that but its seems almost insurmountable to help him. Maybe he has depression. He cannot seem to get over the ghosts of his past.