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    Default Sx-First dating Sx-second

    Do they usually compliment eachother, or do Sx/??'s end up wanting more?

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    It may be safe to say that both may end up wanting more since they have different preoccupations... or even two sx firsts together may end up wanting more. Especially if they have a 1, 4 or 7 fix.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Olly From Wally World View Post
    It may be safe to say that both may end up wanting more since they have different preoccupations... or even two sx firsts together may end up wanting more. Especially if they have a 1, 4 or 7 fix.
    hahaha. says the 741.

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    Quote Originally Posted by suedehead View Post
    Do they usually compliment eachother
    no

    Quote Originally Posted by suedehead View Post
    or do Sx/??'s end up wanting more?
    yes

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Wanting more in what way?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Wanting more in what way?
    Intensity, merging, energy, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by suedehead View Post
    Intensity, merging, energy, etc.
    ugh these words have been thrown around so often they've lost all meaning

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    I think it depends on how large the amount of experienced solitude manifests in the sx-seconds. As in touching for example.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    How would you describe wanting more from an sx second?
    It depends on the sx-second

    sp/sx: Something's always held too much in reserve. They tease me with the possibility of some internal spark of reactivity and impactful experience that lies within, but it's actively quelled. My impulse is to dig deeper and immerse myself in what experiences they have to share, but it's always cut short and leaves me high and dry.
    so/sx: They're usually fun to be around and chat with for a short amount of time, but after a while it gets to be too draining. It's like their minds race too quickly for me to settle into what really makes them tick. "Check out this cool thing I can talk about" can only go on for so long until I just run out of energy to care.

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    My deepest and most mind-blowing relationships were with Sx first folks, but I think if I'm really "in love", I can provide enough relational energy to keep things interesting with some other stack, too. I don't know what that translates into on a longer-term ...For instance, I've never actually lived with someone belonging in another stack, so I cannot tell if there's not enough communication, too many selfishly held barriers etc. My current bf is so/sp and if there are things standing in the way of complete happiness, they have to do with his being a fluctuating and sometimes inconsistent Se base rather than with the stack imo. But well, I guess I'm not as addicted to intensity as I was in my early 20s anymore lol. At least I'm not as turned on by complicated and near-dangerous relationships at this point.
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    I know of an sx first/sx second couple who are adorable and happy together. An sx-second may be more keep to yourself or about the group than an sx first, so it may or may not affect things. The guy even questioned being sx last at one point. Some people have said that opposite variant stackings can be a good match. I am not sure if I would want to date someone with the same variants as me... but you never know unless you have tried it.

    it really depends, I've heard some sx people say that they wouldn't want to date an sx-second or sx last because they can't give them what they need.

    The only guy I ever dated was an sx-dom and it didn't end well, due to my lack of sx and experience in relationships. Also, I didn't quite have what he needed. I myself am not sure what kind of stacking would be a good partner for me to date...
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