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    Quote Originally Posted by Syrup View Post
    the seriousness of the matter has nothing to do with knowing how to give a proper apology
    The situation needs other than apologies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sol View Post
    The situation needs other than apologies.
    most situations does.

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    Last edited by Sol; 11-14-2017 at 09:09 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maniac View Post
    This is sooo accurate with many 9s.



    I've noticed the 2nd one too, with certain 9s. Many 9s in enneagram groups and typology forums have been like that.
    Where are the cameras?





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    Quote Originally Posted by ApeironStella View Post
    Where are the cameras?
    Check your smart phone.
    You remind F type. You'd made a typing video to get opinions about your type.

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    Looks like somebody is PoLR ignoring person.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sol View Post
    ..."Leave me alone, pls. I have not forgiven you still"... *sigh*
    Meanwhile, One man + Nine woman is reported as common pair.
    I thought that Socionics equivalent is conflictors, as natural behavior of One makes Nine to rise the psychological distance. Interesting.
    This has partly match with some of good IR common for One and Nine reported by other source.

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    New Youtube [x] Get Typed! [x]
    Celebs [x] Theory [x] Tumblr [x]

    *********** 21-04-19:
    "Looks like a mystic that just arrived to battle and staring out at the battle, ready to unleash"



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    New Youtube [x] Get Typed! [x]
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    *********** 21-04-19:
    "Looks like a mystic that just arrived to battle and staring out at the battle, ready to unleash"



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    the guy running the Charisma on Command channel is probably 9w8 sx/sp the 'seducer' sx-subtype (SEI-Fe?)







    Talulah Riley - IEI-Fe 9w8 (sp/sx?) English actress and model, was in a relationship with Elon Musk (LSI) for ~8 years





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    This is so 9 that I'm dead

    "All I see is energy
    Universal energy manifested in different forms
    There really is no "yours" or "mine"
    This existence is one big energy exchange
    No beginning no end
    Creation, destruction
    Everlasting
    So what will you do with this gift of right Now?
    What are you creating for yourself right Now?
    More pain, more suffering?
    Or are you taking steps towards more love, more joy, more abundance ?"

    (and sx/so)

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    Always welcome typing advice. :]

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    I think I can only be truly 9 around individuals but become more defensive in larger groups. My personality drastically lowers in energy when around lots of people because I can't become everyone and incorporate everyone's agendas, so I am forced to observe mostly. Most of my personality comes out in 1 on 1.

    Like I'll adapt to a person's mood, but in a group where everyone is positive I get sick of the positivity, and in a group where everyone is negative I get sick of the negativity, so it's much better to just be neutral/detached.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Seductress Steve View Post
    I think I can only be truly 9 around individuals but become more defensive in larger groups. My personality drastically lowers in energy when around lots of people because I can't become everyone and incorporate everyone's agendas, so I am forced to observe mostly. Most of my personality comes out in 1 on 1. Like I'll adapt to a person's mood, but in a group where everyone is positive I get sick of the positivity, and in a group where everyone is negative I get sick of the negativity, so it's much better to just be neutral/detached.
    It's possible to feel the group's mood, its egregor and to tune to it. Empathic Nines should do it like with individuals, except when the group is negative, unpleasant.

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    Caricature (obviously) but I like caricatures.
    Ferdinand is mostly 962-like and sp/so I'd say
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    w1

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    likely another 9w8 sx/sp (Ti-ILE?) the 'wanderer' strong sp subtype




    Ayaan Hirsi - so/sx 9w1 'lightside' social subtype



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    Quote Originally Posted by Seductress Steve View Post
    I think I can only be truly 9 around individuals but become more defensive in larger groups. My personality drastically lowers in energy when around lots of people because I can't become everyone and incorporate everyone's agendas, so I am forced to observe mostly. Most of my personality comes out in 1 on 1.

    Like I'll adapt to a person's mood, but in a group where everyone is positive I get sick of the positivity, and in a group where everyone is negative I get sick of the negativity, so it's much better to just be neutral/detached.
    Not sure what you mean by you "not being 9ish" in groups. This sounds very 9 to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by maniac View Post
    ... how?

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    Anne DeLessio-Parson - 9w8 so/sx (SEI-Fe?)


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    That guy doesn't seem 9 at all. And not sx/sp... sp/so 6w7 or 7w6 imo.

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    some 9s, 9w8s in particular look like they're constantly high. I'm sure they also get comments about that.

    Watched this video and it reminded me

    (from 4:00)
    though I think Hila is w1

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    sp/so


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    Quote Originally Posted by Moonlight View Post
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjES8831wKc

    Don't really know that much about him to be honest, but curious why 9 and not 3?
    The way he positively reframes things is evidence that he is in "positive outlook" triad, which is comprised of types 2-7-9 while 3 is not among them. I've watched several of his videos, after being introduced to him by an ILE e9 friend, and he has mentioned some typical SX-9 problems of going along with the mission of other people and forgetting about himself.

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    this is one of the most 9-ish songs I have heard in a while - Train "Drops of Jupiter" 9w8 so/sx


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    Attachment 12296
    FKA Twigs is one of those 9s that look high all the time

    (so/sx) 9w8 953)

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    Nines – Confusion Technique

    Archers are familiar with what are called “flu flu arrows,” a specially made arrow used to kill birds at short range. Flu flu arrows are aerodynamically designed to fly at full speed for about 50 feet. Then they stop dead in mid-air and drop to the ground.

    In the trance of their Enneagram style, Nines practice “flu flu logic,” a kind of confused thinking that seems to go forward and then dead-ends. This is evident when Nines speak in rambling, saga-like stories filled with off-the-mark details that ramify like ivy. A Nine could begin relating a recent event, get part way into the story, veer off into an irrelevant sideline, double back to explain something they left out, then continue telling the story in long rolling sentences peppered with stray bits of coherence. The whole narrative is a segue, like a drug with only side-effects, a town with only side streets. As you listen to the Nine, you could become perplexed and frustrated and then tired and indifferent. At that point, you feel the way the Nine feels.

    In hypnosis, speaking this way is called confusion technique and it is often used to help a client with an alert, controlling conscious mind lose focus, grow tired and drop into a trance. To off-balance such a client, a hypnotherapist might tell an excessively complicated story, full of misleading clues, subtle puns and hard-to-follow plot points. Once the client grows mentally tired, it is easy for him to enter a trance-like state. In this same way, Nines use confusion technique to self-hypnotize, inducing in themselves a sleepy inability to think clearly that distracts them from their own priorities.

    NLP calls this speaking without a “referential index,” which means talking about something without reference or context. If someone says to you, “Jason went to the wrestling match the other night,” and you don’t know anyone named Jason, you will likely be confused and preoccupied as you search for the missing information in the remark.

    Confusion technique supports the way Nines can have “Virtual Life Obsessions,” (VLOs). VLOs are dissociated obsessions that Nines create about the direction of their lives that replace living their lives. These come about when a Nine is hiding, doubtful that the world has anything more to offer than it did in the past, but the people in the Nine’s environment expect her to have ambitions. Partially to placate others, the Nine obsesses about the goals she should have, the decisions she should make, the ambitions she ought to have. On a deeper level, meanwhile, she remains numb and non-committal.

    Some Nines express their VLOs externally, for example by living in a chaotic, cluttered environment. While many Nines are neat and orderly, some have packrat tendencies. One Nine had a house overflowing with books that he was reluctant to get rid of because he “might read them someday.” Another lived in a large house that she filled with debris – unopened mail, collections of her children’s toys and books, even garbage that had been accumulating for years. This is living metaphor, a Nine’s physical expression of her jumbled inner state.
    sounds familiar

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    Default More deer imagery. It's just a very 9 animal

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    sp/so 9w8 w 7w8 fix

    that music video is so 9

    alot of 9s are good dancers.. or drawn to dance

    this video used to hypnotize me when i was little lol
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    probably w1, so/sx... 947?


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    she's S type. Possible versions: ISFJ, ISTP, ...

    When I see unhappy pretty girl I'm often surprised. I think they just need good man, who also would be good friend for them, would care about them. While they should not have problems to find such men.

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    some tentative e9 typings

     


    Martin Sellner GI - LII 9w8 sx/sp 'wanderer' subtype



    Rhonda Patrick - LII 9w8 sx/sp 'seducer' subtype



    Kristal Garcia - 9w8 so/sx



    Coach Corey Wayne - 9w1 sx/sp (LIE?)


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