Originally Posted by
XoX
Originally Posted by
pesto
ENFj.
Not impossible. I didn't initially get a Beta vibe though. But ENFjs are such chameleons that you never know
They just put on different masks and sound different.
I doubt most of them would ever say they like hieararchies for instance. But what Newbie said about wanting to be and to be seen as confident could be an ENFj's way to put it. It's not that I want to be seen as unconfident, because that tends to make people run me over, but other than that I couldn't care less.
Also the thing about not wanting to give advice when being given confidence. When people confide in me I will come up with suggestions (after having listened), not because I think it's the ultimate solution, but it could at least be something for them to use. I'll give advice whether you want them or not. :wink: My ENFj sister on the other hand is a fairly good listener, but don't give the feedback I expect from her.
And note that none of the INFjs are saying Newbie is one.