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    I think intensity = sx/so > sx/sp > so/sx > sp/sx > so/sp > sp/so

    also I think you can tell if someone has an So or not, at least, by who they are able to focus on in conversation. so-lasts always seem like they are talking to one person at one time. they may not even notice who is standing next to them or what they are saying

    so-first will seem more dispersed, and have a hard time shutting this other stuff out *to* focus

    i judge sp's place by how easy it seems to get to know someone. sp-firsts seem "warmer" at first b/c they will give you so or sp more freely. sp-seconds seem like they want to share something with you but are refusing or can't. but one you get to that level it's more of an outpouring. sp-firsts are more "laid-back," "sp-seconds" are more stiff.

    sx-first can either look like they will steamroll you right now or seem deceptively disengaged. sx-second is more "small-dose easy to access" intimacy.
    Last edited by lemontrees; 06-30-2014 at 11:35 AM.

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