Quote Originally Posted by aisa View Post
in a daily "light" interaction that would be my bet, yeah
The differences become more visible in closer interactions and/or difficult situations and the way emotions are handled - shown/not shown and which are or are not on display - at least these are the differences I tend to see in real life interactions...
That's right. Both are used. It all depends on what is valued. That can only be found out in more stressful situations, when one must streamline their thought, and act truer to their personality.