
Originally Posted by
GOLDEN CHUTNEY
They assess love relations poorly and end up in these gray zones. They try to use reason to solve relationship issues and it makes no interpersonal sense--can even be farcical.
My approach when I met ISTj and he was in a muddle with someone he "thought he'd found a way to marry" was this: even if I never see you again, for the lovva god don't marry her ... It will be a disaster.
And:
If you want to be with me I will not accept this unresolved wishy-washy stuff. Either you're with me, or you're not. I don't have the time nor patience for anything else.
It forced him to make a choice. It was for his own good anyhow.