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    To me it's not the main, practical issue, but sure there is some moral horseshit in this situation. She's going to dump her boyfriend at a preordained time, letting him waste a whole fucking year of his life on her? Meanwhile she says she wants to be with the other guy and expects him to wait for her? Nice how the whole world revolves around this woman and her machinations.

    And someday when she's in a long-term relationship with the second guy, they can wistfully look back on how it all began, with her being dishonest to one guy while stringing the other guy along--how sweet, what an auspicious beginning.

    But my earlier response was only about the practical issues. The way I'd handle it is yes/no/see ya. My moral take on the scenario is I think it's shitty and I wouldn't want to be with the woman, but that's the OP's problem. My asshole-dar pings that she will probably never come through and is immature at best. So I can't blame anyone for focusing on what she's up to here, even though the OP expressed distress at people commenting on that.

    (It's a forum. You post looking for opinions and advice, but want to control the responses. Doesn't usually work.)
    Last edited by golden; 06-13-2014 at 09:09 PM.

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