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    Quote Originally Posted by Hemoglobin View Post
    LSI female here.

    If she says to give it a year. Give it a year. She means what she says... even the 'see other people' part. DO NOT... and I repeat do not try to make her jealous. It'll make her think you're playing games and are not serious about the final stage. She's not giving you false hope. She won't say something for the sake of it to look after your feelings.

    She needs to reconcile her situation for it to be the right time.

    A year is not a long time in the great scheme of things. If she has feelings for you they aren't likely to diminish.

    Also, ignore the 'make her choose' thing. She's already made her choice. She just needs the timing to be perfect.

    Keep regular contact with her. Be open about your worries/anxieties. Tell her how you feel always. It's not going to drive her away, it'll help her understand.
    I think ultimately sending her some photos from various vacation places where he's AT LEAST with a bunch of strangers wouldn't be that bad ... the LSIs I know like putting their Ni to work and wondering if there's anything going on and with whom.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QyHe8rC56c
    Last edited by Amber; 06-13-2014 at 10:06 AM.

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