Quote Originally Posted by WolfgangsMirror View Post
I may come off as defensive, but my frustration is with people not answering the question I asked and answering their own questions. And yes, a random LSI may be a stranger but it's a way more specific type of stranger than just a random stranger.

"sorry you're not getting told what you wanted to hear?"
-exactly. I want to hear responses regarding the question I asked, not people using the contextual information I gave for the question to provide me with their (not even LSI) opinion on the situation as presented.
Hey, do you really expect LSIs to give you deep insight into this relationship? One or two may show up, but there are very few on this forum, so you could just take it easy and chat with others meanwhile. Maybe what you've got with that woman is really meaningful, the idea is the situation is unfair and she could have been more of a bitch. She doesn't just use or or string you on, she wants to balance things a bit. She urges you to have a nice life until she makes a decision. Of course you can't expect a LSI to break a commitment on the spot, but they usually know what they want and then wait for the right time to act - then they're unstoppable. To me it seems she's still got something to 'consume' with that other guy or she isn't sure about a future with you. Not that it matters, but I know several LSIs and I was even married to one for a few years. Actually before we started (or as we started realizing where things were going and how complex they were getting) the man was married to someone else. He broke that other relationship slowly, only after he was convinced that there's hardly anything more to save and that the other possibility has indisputably superior potential (they think in Ti terms, so they weigh and compare everything according to what they deem important, they're not really going by their gut or their heart). So maybe getting into cognitive barrier mode isn't really helpful for you.