
Originally Posted by
rosewood
Dude (..?). You sound a bit affected by the whole complicated situation. You´re probably trying to turn LSI simple words and actions on all sides and filling in dots. My advice is to REALLY go dating others and check out on her somehow once in a while. This way you can also notice if what she´s offering you is really what you want. LSI is not complicated - really not any more complicated than a typical Aggressor (what´s been previously said here). But they don´t like insecurity, they admire independence - they judge via Se first and too much imbalance in the power dynamics can make them pull back. They respond well to a form of being attentive and accommodating to them ...in a self-assured and teasing way though. You just sitting there repressed and waiting for her while she's fucking another doesn't sound very healthy. Actually it would be a bit pathetic.
P.S. LSI ime doesn´t consciously want you to "be serious and prove your devotion.". They just process relational content more slowly. They may like seeing that you´re still into them as time goes by, but only if they are already emotionally hooked and invested in you. Otherwise the thought alone that someone's so devoted means nothing to them.