Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
Ask Rasputin how he was able to figure out my enneagram type, was it when he turned away and ignored me? Have you even read what my enneagram type says? I don't want you to address me, I don't care to hear you, I am sure one day, you will realize that what you are saying was out of something about me you couldn't see, that's right in front of you. I don't use people as crutches, I dual, I know when to back off and let my dual carry the load, and I know when my work is valuable...you don't. I don't need my dual to save me, I need my dual to COVER these points as I will happily and gladly cover their weakness...that's what makes them ONE. Real skills for you are easy...NOT so with me, again, you want me to do what you can...that is unreal, unreasonable and unnecessary.
Balance in and of itself is good.
But that still doesn't mean you can't learn how to actually communicate things and discuss things better so that these other people here don't react this way to you.

I think your skill at discussion can be improved - and that's something outside of socionics.



If every person could do exactly what the next can then this system of duality would be false, unreal; I have news for you, it isn't unreal; it's very real.
I think equating someone's functional ordering with competence is kind of foolish. How come Michael Jackson is one of the best dancers ever and yet he's IEI, and his dual is the dominant person? Shouldn't that render Jackson incompetent at dancing?

I don't think you think about elements and functions in the best way, you're a bit too limiting.