Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
I think he did it somewhat because he didn't realize how strange you were and just reacted normally to seeing someone under distress. I would have acted that way too, but I see clearly how you caused this mess so I'm not going to just bail you out of it.

That's what you missed.

I surely don't want to be a babysitter.

I never asked this from you, did I?

If you think me 'demanding' you to deal with this situation is unreasonable or appropriate, then yes, I don't see any future for us as a couple. I'd be too inclined to tell you to grow up. I will take care of the person in my relationship, but I will not encourage them to abandon responsibility, maturity, and growth.

Did working together to figure out task seperation based on strengths and weaknesses ever occure to you?

What do you expect me to do , not think deeply, and not plan anything, and rely on you to tell me what time it is? You'd have me consult you for every moral decision, and not become better at evaluating things ethically myself?

You don't know what you need from me; it's not morality, 24/7. Figure it out, then bring the topic up again.

No thanks, I don't want to become a vegetable for all matters N and F

You don't become a vegetable doing what you're supposed to be doing.
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