I think he did it somewhat because he didn't realize how strange you were and just reacted normally to seeing someone under distress. I would have acted that way too, but I see clearly how you caused this mess so I'm not going to just bail you out of it.
I surely don't want to be a babysitter.because he doesn't have this deal that you do; my cousin stands next to me because she knows that when my voice decends, she steps in, you stand there, in the corner expecting something from me that can not be produced...perhapse another ISTp is a better match for you until you can grow to realize certain realities of individual traits in people and stop making unreachable, inappropriately unreasonable, demands.
If you think me 'demanding' you to deal with this situation is unreasonable or appropriate, then yes, I don't see any future for us as a couple. I'd be too inclined to tell you to grow up. I will take care of the person in my relationship, but I will not encourage them to abandon responsibility, maturity, and growth.
What do you expect me to do , not think deeply, and not plan anything, and rely on you to tell me what time it is? You'd have me consult you for every moral decision, and not become better at evaluating things ethically myself?It just so happens that my polr is not yours, it just so happens that in real life it is less physical then your mental polr.
No thanks, I don't want to become a vegetable for all matters N and F.



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