Again, you can use a dual as a crutch, but i don't think that's very healthy. You have to continue to learn and grow as a person ; it's about balance.

Furthermore, I don't think the situation you are in has much to do with duality or needing a dual to save you from the mess you created here.

"being able to answer questions logically and with evidence, as well as being able to listen to people and understand them, are skills that any type can develop"