I called for help in the ENTj or ESTj thread and Rasputin responded, because he doesn't have this deal that you do; my cousin stands next to me because she knows that when my voice decends, she steps in, you stand there, in the corner expecting something from me that can not be produced...perhapse another ISTp is a better match for you until you can grow to realize certain realities of individual traits in people and stop making unreachable, inappropriately unreasonable, demands.

It just so happens that my polr is not yours, it just so happens that in real life it is less physical then your mental polr.