Those movie clips might not make the most sense if you're not famliar with the movie.


Bottom line is: I can't help you become stronger or deal with things better if I shield you from the truth. You have to understand that people have legitimate points and gripes about how you go about things. I will help you become stronger and help you deal with things if you like. But you have to face the situation that you created on your own - me just telling everybody else to leave you alone because you're feeling uncomfortable about things will only benefit you so much. (see Moral Hazard)

It's like.... if you expect me to bail you out of debt by always giving you money. If you keep making bad choices with your money - if you keep asking others for 5$ here and 10$ there, and never pay them back yourself, that's not good. If I pay everyone back for you, you don't learn how to handle your money better.

I'm interested in helping you and protecting you only if you want to get better ; I'm not interested in bailing you out or defending you from situations that you create on your own - a situation you create and then don't want to deal with its consequences.