I wrote this an hour ago but my internets ran away, so, it's a little temporarily out of place...
@Maritsa
I would defend you but I think you need to learn something here, Maritsa. You can't keep running away from problems or expecting someone to save you from something.
A lot of people don't particularly think you are going about things very well, so you should consider why they feel that way - not just write off what they are doing as some sort of "Gang Se Tactic". I feel like you are using that as a cop out.
Too much protection and rescuing makes someone less likely to take care of themselves ; this is the
Moral Hazard.