Quote Originally Posted by blood moon View Post
I'm really curious after reading the Si-polr ENFj thread, and their discomfort with naked bodies and functions or whatever.

What's it like?? Do you really want an LSI to tie you up and beat you? Or is that a totally misdirected stereotype that's meant only for deltas?
As an EIE, I was extremely uncomfortable being naked for many many years. I don't know if it is type related, or being raised in an extreme christian fundamentalist family or both. It wasn't until I had enough experience (quite a few years) and genuine positive feedback before I became comfortable with being naked. Now I"m not a nudist or anything, but I have no issues with being naked or being seen naked.

As for the "victim" mentality in terms of relationships and BDSM, I don't have a simple answer. I definitely find myself most stimulated by a strong resilient partner who can provide a sense of back and forth in terms of power and control. I was in a relationship with someone with which we did play around with BDSM a little bit (She was INFp), but she was completely submissive and it wasn't fulfilling for me. I am drawn to someone whose submission I earn, and who can earn it from me. I don't know if that makes sense, it's like playing a competitive board game. If your opponent is terrible it's usually a boring game. I lost desire to play around with BDSM with her, but found I still had occasional BDSM fantasies involving an LSI.

I don't mean to cast relationships or sex into a form of competition, I don't want to give the wrong idea, but like dancing- somebody has to lead.
Hope that helps...