OK, but I'm interested in the EIE POV... personally my experiences with agressors has not been anything close to bdsm, and I'm leaning more towards the idea that it's Fi and delta that likes structured role playing and its attribution to beta rationals is totally wrong. BUT without hearing from EIE I might have only half the picture.

Plus I've had experiences like these with EIEs ~

 


*after* going down on me, members of beta quadra have responded like this:

SLE: "suck my cock" - as blunt and crude as possible, pulling out his dick
LSI: "I like blowjobs" - "proper" but to the point, no shame about his body

EIE: "are you grossed out by bjs?" - ?? definitely self-conscious about his privates.

The same EIE also told me once to "beat his dick around, make it behave." Unfortunately as a fellow victim, that didn't turn me on at all.


Also, I have a feeling that no EIEs are going to share