*after* going down on me, members of beta quadra have responded like this:
SLE: "suck my cock" - as blunt and crude as possible, pulling out his dick
LSI: "I like blowjobs" - "proper" but to the point, no shame about his body
EIE: "are you grossed out by bjs?" - ??

definitely self-conscious about his privates.
The same EIE also told me once to "beat his dick around, make it behave." Unfortunately as a fellow victim, that didn't turn me on at all.
Also, I have a feeling that no EIEs are going to share