Quote Originally Posted by Hemoglobin View Post
@AshSun

If you want shit to progress, go LSI. The cool/reserved nature will melt away once trust sets in.

Even if LSI plays slight games don't play them back. (Hypocritical I know) If they see you wavering in interest they will most likely back off.

Though after reading some of your responses in regards to telling him you like three others....O.o If I were him I'd be running for the hills.
I sense he's been trying both to test me via "Se" (boundaries, strength ..) and at the same time to let some tone of trust and reliability set in. It can be an interesting contradiction, but not easy to push through smoothly. I have the impression that the exact thing you described in the Beta Quadra as a sexual preference with this man also takes place at the level of the whole personality and interaction: "a long and slow courtship dance of mental fortitude and aggression; posturing. Manipulation, cornering, and taking control of the other person.". So the thing got stale for a while, because obviously I responded to what I saw as "games" my way. I took his reserve as "oh, he just wants me to pursue him". As I've already said here, he opened up when I stated that he's very close to what I want etc. --- this was after he made a "fake takeaway" move. Basically he cornered me with his Se creative a bit to make me set or show the actual emotional tone in the relationship. At this point it seems funny.