where the fuck do you all people live, in a village in the bottom of a forest?! There are many relationship forms quite publicly and freely accepted nowadays. And it's a personal choice after all. I hate the idea of commitment to one person if it's not something deep and authentic. And I'm starting to see quite clearly it's the LSI I'm more into as things develop. All this stuff with both is still in a quite incipient stage of dating/relating anyway. Never mind. I've found the best place and ppl for such discussion obviously.